What if there was a formula that you could use to achieve happiness? A checklist that led you closer to the happy feelings and happy life that you’ve been searching for? Psychologists have been asking themselves these questions in recent decades. In fact, an entire branch of psychology – positive psychology – has taken the psychology world by storm. The founder of positive psychology has created a model for happiness that I want to share with you today.
What Is the PERMA Model?
The PERMA Model of Happiness is a concept developed by Martin Seligman which is an acronym for five key elements to maintaining happiness: Positive Emotions, Engagement, Relationships, Meaning, and Achievement. Understanding and applying the PERMA Model can help you elevate your everyday life.
Who is Martin Seligman?
Martin Seligman is an author, educator, and founder of positive psychology. He founded the field of positive psychology as a response to behaviorism and psychoanalysis. These fields of study focused on the negative, and “fixing” a damaged person. Before a patient could get better, psychologists tried to identify their faults, flaws, and setbacks.
Positive psychology takes a different approach. Instead of uncovering the negative, positive psychology puts the positive first. Positive psychologists look for formulas and strategies for achieving ultimate happiness and fulfillment in life.
In 2011, Martin Seligman published Flourish: A Visionary New Understanding of Happiness and Well-being. In this book, Seligman introduces the PERMA Model and shares his findings on happiness vs. well-being. He says, “I used to think that the topic of positive psychology was happiness, that the gold standard for measuring happiness was life satisfaction, and that the goal of positive psychology was to increase life satisfaction. I now think that the topic of positive psychology is well-being, that the gold standard for measuring well-being is flourishing, and that the goal of positive psychology is to increase flourishing.”
In order to elevate your well-being, Seligman says that you must look at the PERMA Model. Increasing each element within the PERMA Model can increase your overall well-being and allow you to “flourish.”
But what are the five elements of PERMA?
What PERMA Stands For
PERMA is an acronym that stands for:
- Positive feelings
All of these elements are measured differently, but they’re all equally important. They support each other. Increasing your positive feelings can increase your ability to engage, which can support your ability to have meaning in your life, which increases positive feelings, and so on and so forth. One element of PERMA should not be pursued just to achieve happiness or meet superficial goals. Pursuing any of the five elements should be done for their own sake. Let’s get into what they are.
Before Seligman wrote Flourish, he published Learned Optimism. Optimistic people are able to conjure up positive feelings faster than pessimistic people. They bounce back from setbacks and understand that a single failure or small obstacle does not have to drag them down. They believe that they are in control of their life and that control makes them feel good!
Positive feelings could not be more important to chase during global pandemics or chaotic times. If you want to become a more optimistic person, I recommend reading Learned Optimism and assessing the way that you explain failures or successes. These explanatory styles can help you eliminate learned helplessness, change the way that you look at the future, and stay optimistic.
Remember, each of these elements alone does not make up your entire well-being. You do not have to feel chipper to pursue well-being. This is a common misconception that Seligman aims to clarify in Flourish: “It turns out, however, that how much life satisfaction people report is itself determined by how good we feel at the very moment we are asked the question. Averaged over many people, the mood you are in determines more than 70 percent of how much life satisfaction you report, and how well you judge your life to be going at that moment determines less than 30 percent.”
Do not focus on positive feelings alone. Engagement, relationships, meaning, and accomplishments can all be pursued while feeling low.
Optimism keeps us pushing forward at work, in our relationships, and at home. Have you ever experienced a time when you are working or engaged in a hobby, and you just feel the time go by? This is the type of optimal engagement that Seligman suggests that you work toward. When you’re in this state of flow, you are fully involved, enjoying what you do, and find that your efforts and rewards are one and the same. Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi, another founder of the Positive Psychology movement, has written an entire book on this topic. Finding the activity that puts you in a state of flow is crucial to elevating your well-being and enjoying what you do.
You can achieve positive feelings and enter the flow state when you’re on your own, but life doesn’t always feel so fulfilling when you’re by yourself. The “R” in the PERMA Model is relationships.
Another key figure in the Positive Psychology movement is Abraham Maslow. Maslow is most well-known for his Hierarchy of Needs, in which he lays out what humans need to eventually reach self-actualization and self-fulfillment. Above physiological needs are psychological needs, including “belongingness.” Humans want to feel as though they belong. They want to feel like they can reach out to friends, family, colleagues, etc. for support. People want to feel seen, heard, and loved.
Pursuing healthy relationships that offer a sense of belonging is key to well-being. The alternative is isolation and loneliness. In recent years, experts have identified loneliness as an epidemic, affecting not only mental well-being, but physical well-being as well. Forming meaningful relationships is good for your health, and must be pursued even in these crazy times.
Does your life have meaning?
This is a big question, but one that must be pursued to elevate your well-being. Humans gather meaning from various activities or groups. Religion gives people meaning. Spirituality gives people meaning. Working toward a greater goal gives people meaning. Where do you find meaning?
This exploration can take an entire lifetime but is extremely fulfilling in the process. Remember, these elements should all be pursued independently. You may not find meaning in the activities that put you in a state of flow. Optimism does not equal meaning. Exploring meaning is its own separate journey.
Last but not least is accomplishments. Accomplishments may not give you a greater sense of meaning but still elevate your overall well-being. Working to accomplish goals at work, at home, or in your relationships can be its own separate journey. What do you want to accomplish?
Accomplishments aren’t just about winning a gold medal or earning the top spot at your company. Any of the following may be considered a great accomplishment:
- Volunteering for 100 hours at a local animal shelter
- Setting up your friend with their now-spouse
- Raising a happy child
- Throwing great parties that family and friends look forward to
- Getting a promotion
- Maintaining a clean home
- Improving your place in life
With all elements of the PERMA Model, you determine if you can “check these items off your list.” Positive feelings, engagement, relationships, meaning, and accomplishments look different for everyone. These elements may also change as you age.
In recent years, another letter has been added to this model: V. V stands for “vitality”: physical vitality, that is. Eating right, sleeping well, and being physically healthy contributes to mental and emotional health. Although this model is used, the PERMA model is also sufficient when discussing mental health.
Examples of Pursuing the PERMA Model of Happiness
What does it look like to be happy, according to this model? Let’s follow the day in the life who has checked all the boxes on the PERMA model. We’ll call them Greg.
Greg wakes up early and goes to the gym. He goes every morning to meet with some friends to climb and lift. They have stuck to this tradition for years! After a good hour of working out, Greg feels great and ready for work. He doesn’t enjoy his job so much, but it pays the bills and gives him the freedom to pursue other passions. When he is faced with a challenge at work, he tries to take it head-on and learn something new.
After work, Greg goes home and works on his latest projects. He is very passionate about his role as a Dungeon Master for various Dungeons and Dragons games. He enjoys building campaigns and working with various groups. When he’s writing or playing D&D, he finds that time flies by! Greg has formed many great friendships through playing Dungeons and Dragons. He has even met a girlfriend or two in this community.
At the end of the day, Greg might not have made a million dollars or come home to a spouse and kids, but he is happy with his life. He sees the fun and joy he creates for other people. His family loves him. Greg may experience moments of sadness or frustration or challenges, but he has a great mindset and always finds ways to learn something new. This is how Greg stays happy and optimistic.
How to Pursue These Elements (PERMA Happiness Tests)
What do you need to pursue the elements within the PERMA model? Seligman has an answer for you. In Flourish, Seligman identifies 24 character strengths. Everyone has a handful of these strengths. By using them, people can work toward positive feelings, engagement, relationships, meaning, and accomplishments. Identifying and using your character strengths is the first step in achieving a higher well-being.
Seligman has categorized the 24 strengths by six different virtues: wisdom, courage, humanity, justice, temperance, and transcendence. Each of these virtues houses three-five different strengths. Wisdom, for example, is the umbrella virtue for Creativity, curiosity, open-mindedness, love of learning, and perspective. You may already see some strengths that you hold. Harness these strengths on your journey.
You can take tests online to figure out which character strengths will be most helpful as you pursue well-being and a more fulfilling life.
Looking at Well-Being in New Ways
Seligman’s concept of “flourishing” takes a lot of pressure off of people who may not be feeling so happy in these chaotic times. Instead of laser-focusing on happiness, the PERMA model encourages us to focus on different elements of well-being. The more engaged you feel, the more you have meaning, and the more you accomplish, the more fulfilled you will feel. All of these different elements support each other. If you are looking for happiness, look to these other elements first. You’ll find that positive feelings, engagement, and the other elements all elevate together as you pursue them separately.