12+ Types of Attitudes (Examples + Quiz)

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Have you ever wondered why some people seem to be happy all the time while others look like they just lost their last piece of candy? The answer might have something to do with attitudes. But wait, what exactly is an "attitude"?

An attitude is like a pair of glasses that each of us wears. Just like glasses can be tinted to make the world look darker or brighter, our attitudes color the way we see things around us.

Imagine going through life with rainbow-colored glasses that make everything seem exciting! Or think about wearing gray-tinted glasses that turn everything dull and boring. That's what attitudes do—they shape how we feel, act, and even how others see us.

Attitudes are super important. They can be our best friends or our worst enemies, influencing how we interact with people, solve problems, and even how happy we are.

Whether it's being optimistic and seeing the glass as half-full, or being pessimistic and thinking it's half-empty, our attitudes have a big impact on our lives.

In this article, we're going to take a deep dive into the world of attitudes. We'll explore different types, from the good to the bad and even the so-so. By the end, you'll not only understand what attitudes are but also how you might change your own attitude for the better.

What is an Attitude?

glass half full

We talked about attitudes being like a pair of glasses that color how we see the world, right? Let's dig a little deeper into that idea.

An attitude is basically a way of thinking or feeling about something or someone. It’s not just a random thought that pops into your head; it's more like a mental habit.

You know how you brush your teeth every morning and night? Well, your attitude is like a mental brushing—it’s something that you do over and over until it becomes a part of who you are.

For example, let's say you love basketball. You might have a positive attitude towards playing the game, watching it on TV, and even learning about its history. This attitude could make you more interested in practicing, watching games, and becoming a better player.

Or perhaps you don’t like math. In that case, you might groan every time someone mentions algebra, avoid math homework, or struggle with math tests. That's your attitude towards math shaping your behavior.

Remember, attitudes can be about big things like how you feel about climate change, or small things like your opinion on pineapple on pizza. They can be broad or specific, like having a general love for animals or a specific fondness for golden retrievers.

Why does this matter? Because attitudes are like magnets. If you have a positive attitude about something, you're likely to be drawn towards it. If you have a negative attitude, you'll probably steer clear. Understanding your attitudes helps you understand yourself, and that’s the first step in becoming the best you can be.

Why Do Attitudes Matter?

You might be wondering, "Okay, so I have these attitudes, but why should I care?" Great question! Attitudes matter for a whole bunch of reasons.

First, they shape our behavior. Remember our basketball and math examples? If you love basketball, you'll likely spend time practicing, watching games, or hanging out with others who love the sport. On the other hand, if you dislike math, you might avoid it whenever possible, which could affect your grades and future opportunities.

Second, attitudes impact our relationships. If you’re a positive person who sees the good in others, people are more likely to enjoy being around you. On the flip side, if you're always grumpy or critical, even your closest friends might start to keep their distance. Ever heard of the phrase, "You attract more flies with honey than with vinegar?" Well, that’s attitudes in action!

Lastly, attitudes can either add a sparkle or a cloud to your personal happiness. Imagine waking up every day feeling that the world is full of possibilities. Sounds great, doesn't it? But if you wake up thinking everything is terrible, you're setting yourself up for a day that's likely to be, well, not so great.

How Are Attitudes Formed?

Now that we know what attitudes are and why they're so important, let's explore how these powerful mindsets come to life.

Think of it like the origin story of a superhero—except this superhero is your way of thinking! To really get the lowdown, we're going to bring in some ideas from psychologists and other experts.

First, let's talk about personal experiences. Sigmund Freud, a really famous psychologist from the early 1900s, talked about how early life experiences can shape our attitudes and even our personality.

Imagine you had an amazing time at a summer camp where you learned to love nature. That experience would likely give you a positive attitude towards the environment.

On the other hand, if you had a bad experience, like failing a test, you might develop a negative attitude toward the subject matter. It's like Freud said, our early experiences can stick with us for a long time.

Now, let's move on to the influence of family and friends. Albert Bandura, known for his Social Learning Theory, says that we learn a lot by observing others, especially people we look up to.

So, if your older sister is super into reading and always talks about how much fun it is, you might pick up a positive attitude toward reading too. Bandura suggests that it's not just about copying actions but also adopting attitudes.

Peer pressure is another biggie. Solomon Asch conducted experiments that showed how strong the desire to fit in can be.

In his studies, people often agreed with a group’s wrong answer to a simple question just because they didn’t want to stand out. So if all your friends think that a particular sport is the coolest thing ever, there’s a good chance you’ll adopt a similar attitude, even if you originally didn’t care about it. That’s how powerful peer pressure can be!

Lastly, let's not forget about media and society. Psychologists like George Gerbner have talked about 'Cultivation Theory,' which suggests that the more you're exposed to something in the media, the more you might think it’s important or true.

So if all the movies you watch show that being rich is the key to happiness, you might start developing that attitude too. The media can be like a sneaky chef, sprinkling little bits of attitudes into your mind without you even noticing.

In summary, attitudes are complex recipes with ingredients from your personal experiences (Freud would nod in agreement), the influence of those around you (Bandura and Asch would high-five you for remembering that), and what society and the media feed you (Gerbner would probably want you to be cautious about this).

The good news? Just like recipes can be changed, so can your attitudes! (Read on below for ideas on how!)

Examples of Positive Attitudes

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1) Optimism

Alright, let's kick things off with optimism! You know those people who always seem to see the silver lining, even when things are tough? Those are optimists. Optimism is like being that person who walks into a room and turns on a light—even if it's already bright outside.

But why should you care about being optimistic? Well, Dr. Martin Seligman, who's known for his work on Positive Psychology, says that optimists often live longer and are generally happier.

They're like those battery-powered bunnies that just keep going and going. Seligman’s studies have shown that optimism can improve your immune system. Yep, being optimistic might even help you fend off the common cold!

Besides health benefits, optimists also deal better with stress. They view challenges as opportunities to grow, rather than as threats.

And guess what? This positive outlook can make them more successful in life. Research shows that optimistic salespeople sell more, optimistic students get better grades, and optimistic athletes perform better.

So how can you add a sprinkle of optimism to your life? Start by focusing on what you can control and change, rather than what you can't. Challenge yourself to find the good in difficult situations. It might not change the situation, but it will certainly change how you feel about it.

2) Gratitude

Next up is gratitude. Ever heard the saying, “Count your blessings, not your problems?” That’s gratitude in action.

Gratitude is all about focusing on what you have, rather than what you don’t have. Dr. Robert Emmons, a leading expert on gratitude, says that this attitude can make you happier and even improve your physical health.

When you practice gratitude regularly—like writing down things you’re thankful for in a gratitude journal—you begin to appreciate the smaller things in life. It's like turning a magnifying glass on the good stuff, making them seem bigger and more important.

And here’s a bonus: Studies show that people who are grateful are also more likely to help others. So your gratitude could actually make the world a better place!

3) Enthusiasm

Do you know someone who’s always excited, no matter what they're doing? Whether it's doing homework, playing a sport, or even cleaning their room—they're just thrilled. That’s enthusiasm!

Psychologists, like Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi who talks about 'Flow,' explain that when you're enthusiastic, you’re more likely to be "in the zone" or in a state of flow. This means you'll perform better and enjoy what you're doing a whole lot more.

The cool thing about enthusiasm is that it can be contagious. When you're excited about something, it’s easier to get others excited too. So not only does your enthusiasm make your life more enjoyable, but it also lights up the room and gets other people pumped up as well.

4) Open-mindedness

Last but not least in our positive attitude lineup is open-mindedness. Being open-minded means you’re willing to consider different ideas, opinions, and perspectives, even if they’re not your own.

Psychologist Carol Dweck would say this aligns with a 'Growth Mindset'—the belief that abilities and intelligence can be developed through hard work and dedication.

Open-minded people are like explorers, always looking for new things to learn and new ways to grow. They're more likely to take on challenges, seek out new experiences, and even change their minds when presented with new information.

Open-mindedness opens doors to opportunities and helps you get along with people who think differently than you do.

Examples of Negative Attitudes

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5) Pessimism

Let’s start with the opposite of optimism: pessimism. Remember those folks who see the glass as half-empty? That's a pessimistic viewpoint.

Dr. Martin Seligman, who we mentioned earlier, explains that pessimists are more likely to suffer from stress and poor health compared to optimists. Pessimists often feel helpless and may give up more easily when faced with challenges.

The tricky thing about pessimism is that it's self-fulfilling. If you expect the worst, you won’t be surprised when it happens. And because you’re not looking for opportunities, you might miss out on chances to turn things around.

Pessimism can affect not only your well-being but also how you interact with others. No one wants to hang around a ‘Debbie Downer,’ right?

But don't worry, there's hope! Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), a form of psychotherapy developed by Dr. Aaron T. Beck, has been effective in changing pessimistic attitudes. The goal is to identify negative thought patterns and replace them with more positive and realistic ones.

6) Cynicism

Cynicism is a sneaky one. It might seem like you’re just being realistic or practical, but it can become toxic quickly. Cynics tend to distrust others and question their motives.

Ever heard the saying, "If something seems too good to be true, it probably is"? That’s a classic cynical thought.

Dr. John M. Grohol, an expert in psychology, notes that cynicism can lead to social isolation because it's hard to build relationships when you're always skeptical. He also was the first to come up with the term "FOMO" - the Fear of Missing Out - which is something I think we've all experienced!

Like pessimism, cynicism can be changed. It requires being aware of your thought patterns and making an effort to give people the benefit of the doubt. It doesn't mean being naive; it means choosing to see the good until proven otherwise.

7) Apathy

Have you ever felt like you just don’t care about anything? Like you could stay in bed all day and it wouldn't matter? That’s called apathy.

Unlike pessimism and cynicism, which are attitudes about how you interpret things, apathy is about a lack of interest or concern.

Dr. Richard S. Schwartz has studied this emotional state and found that it can lead to a decreased desire to take action, engage with others, or find meaning in life.

Apathy can be a sign of more serious mental health issues like depression, so it’s important to consult professionals if you or someone you know is struggling with it. Therapies and treatments can help reignite that spark of interest and get you back on track.

8) Negativity

Negativity is like that cloud that follows you around, raining on your parade. It’s a general attitude of expecting the worst and finding faults in everything.

Dr. Barbara Fredrickson’s research on positivity found that a constant negative attitude can create a 'negativity spiral,' making it hard to experience positive emotions.

So how do you escape the negativity spiral? By challenging your thoughts and focusing on positive affirmations. As Dr. Fredrickson suggests, try to incorporate more positive experiences into your day to balance out the negative ones. Over time, this can change your overall outlook.

Examples of Mixed Attitudes

9) Skepticism

First up is skepticism. If you're a skeptic, you're not quick to believe things without solid evidence. Sounds like a detective, right?

Skepticism can be really useful. For example, Dr. Michael Shermer, a well-known skeptic and science writer, suggests that skepticism can protect you from being fooled by scams or fake news.

However, too much skepticism can also make you closed off to new ideas or opportunities. Imagine never trying a new food because you're skeptical it'll taste good—you could miss out on something delicious!

Skepticism, in moderation, can be your friend, helping you navigate the world thoughtfully. But taken to an extreme, it can limit your experiences and keep you stuck in a mental rut.

10) Ambivalence

Ambivalence is when you have mixed feelings or conflicting attitudes about something. Think of it as sitting on the fence, not sure which side to jump off.

Dr. Philip Zimbardo, a famous psychologist, says that ambivalence can sometimes make decision-making really tough. You might feel both happy and nervous about starting a new job, making it hard to know how you truly feel.

While ambivalence can make things complicated, it's also a sign that you're considering multiple aspects of a situation. That's a good thing! It means you're not rushing into decisions and you're taking time to weigh the pros and cons.

However, if you find yourself always ambivalent and indecisive, it might be helpful to talk it out with someone or seek professional advice.

11) Curiosity

Curiosity might have killed the cat, but for humans, it’s generally a good thing. Being curious means you have a thirst to learn and explore new things.

Dr. Todd Kashdan, who has researched curiosity extensively, argues that it can increase your well-being and add richness to your life.

However, curiosity can have its drawbacks. Ever heard of the phrase "too much of a good thing"? Well, being overly curious can sometimes lead you into risky situations or cause you to waste time exploring endless rabbit holes.

You know, like when you start reading one article online and suddenly it’s three hours later. So, like everything in life, balance is key.

12) Realism

Last but not least, let’s talk about realism. Realists aim to see things as they truly are, without sugarcoating or exaggerating. On one hand, this can be a super helpful trait.

Dr. Julie Norem, who has studied defensive pessimism, argues that a realistic attitude can prepare you for challenges and even improve your performance.

However, being too realistic can sometimes veer into negativity. If you're always focused on the harsh realities, you might miss out on opportunities for joy and wonder. Realism is like that pinch of salt in a recipe—it adds flavor but too much can spoil the dish.

How to Change Your Attitude

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The first step in changing your attitude is figuring out what your attitude actually is. Sounds simple, right? But it can be trickier than you think.

Dr. Daniel Goleman, who is famous for his work on Emotional Intelligence, says that self-awareness is the cornerstone of emotional intelligence and can really help you understand your attitudes.

Try keeping a journal to note down your thoughts and feelings. You can even label them as "positive," "negative," or "mixed" to get a clearer picture. Then, look for patterns. Do you see more negative entries around certain events or people? That could be a clue!


Once you know what you're dealing with, set some goals.

Dr. Edwin Locke and Dr. Gary Latham spent decades researching goal-setting and found that specific, challenging goals are much more effective than easy or vague ones.

So instead of saying "I want to be more positive," say "I will list three good things that happened to me every day." Now you've got something concrete to work towards!

We have a list of ideas you can use for setting goals for work, if you're having trouble coming up with your own.

Techniques and Tools

To change your attitude, you might need some techniques and tools in your toolbox.

For instance, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), developed by Dr. Aaron T. Beck, is widely used to change negative thought patterns.

Dr. Martin Seligman's concept of "learned optimism" can help you become more optimistic by challenging any pessimistic thoughts.

Other tools include gratitude journals, recommended by Dr. Robert Emmons, or mindfulness meditation, backed by Dr. Jon Kabat-Zinn. There's even a formal program called MBSR - Mindfulness Based Stress Reduction - that Dr. Kabat-Zinn developed in the late 70s and now has online versions too.

These tools can help you become more aware of your thoughts and feelings and make it easier to change your attitude.

Support Network

Changing your attitude isn't a solo mission. It's always easier when you have a team behind you. This could be friends, family, or even a professional like a psychologist. Social support is super important for mental health and can provide that extra push when you're trying to change your attitude.

Dr. Julianne Holt-Lunstad has found that strong social support can have various positive effects, like lowering stress and increasing lifespan. So don't hesitate to seek support!

Consistency and Patience

Last but definitely not least, be consistent and patient. Change won't happen overnight. Dr. Angela Duckworth, who studies grit and perseverance, tells us that consistency over time is key to any kind of success, including changing your attitude.

Quiz: What's Your Dominant Attitude?

Answer the following questions honestly to discover what your dominant attitude tends to be. Choose the answer that most closely reflects your typical thoughts, feelings, or actions.

A = 1 point
B = 2 points
C = 3 points


  1. You see a glass that is half-full with water. You think:
    • A) It's half-empty.
    • B) Not sure, it's just a glass of water.
    • C) It's half-full.
  2. You're faced with a challenging task at work or school. Your initial thought is:
    • A) I can't do this.
    • B) I'm not sure if I can do this.
    • C) I can totally nail this.
  3. A friend tells you about a new opportunity. You:
    • A) Immediately think about the risks involved.
    • B) Consider both the risks and rewards.
    • C) Get excited about the possibilities.
  4. You just learned how to play a new game. Your thoughts:
    • A) I'll probably lose anyway.
    • B) I might win or lose, it's a new game.
    • C) I can't wait to win!
  5. When meeting new people, you:
    • A) Worry they won’t like you.
    • B) Feel both excited and a bit cautious.
    • C) Look forward to making a new friend.
  6. Someone gives you a compliment. You:
    • A) Don't believe them.
    • B) Consider the compliment but remain skeptical.
    • C) Feel happy and grateful for the praise.
  7. You're planning a day out. You think:
    • A) Something will likely go wrong.
    • B) It could be fun, but let’s not get too excited.
    • C) This is going to be amazing!
  8. You're offered a new job or project. You:
    • A) Immediately think about why you might fail.
    • B) Consider the pros and cons carefully.
    • C) Jump at the chance, confident in your abilities.
  9. You're in a debate or argument. Your mindset is:
    • A) I won't change their mind, so why bother?
    • B) I'll give it a try but don't expect much.
    • C) I can convince them.
  10. You're given critical feedback. You:
    • A) Take it as confirmation that you're not good enough.
    • B) Consider the feedback but don't take it too personally.
    • C) Use it as a learning opportunity.
  11. You're learning a new skill. You think:
    • A) I'll never get the hang of this.
    • B) I might or might not succeed; it’s a learning curve.
    • C) I’ll master this in no time.
  12. A friend is late to meet you. Your first thought is:
    • A) They don’t value my time.
    • B) Maybe something important came up.
    • C) Traffic must be bad; it's not their fault.
  13. When you hear about a new change in your life, you:
    • A) Dread it.
    • B) Feel both excited and nervous.
    • C) Look forward to it.
  14. You find $5 on the street. You:
    • A) Think it’s a scam or a trick.
    • B) Wonder if you should take it or leave it.
    • C) Feel lucky and take it as a sign of a good day.
  15. You fail at something important to you. Your reaction is:
    • A) I knew this would happen.
    • B) I need to evaluate what went wrong.
    • C) This is just a hiccup; I'll do better next time.
  16. You're about to take a test. You're thinking:
    • A) I’m going to fail.
    • B) I hope I’ve studied enough.
    • C) I’ve got this in the bag.
  17. When you're setting goals, you:
    • A) Set low expectations to avoid disappointment.
    • B) Set achievable but not overly ambitious goals.
    • C) Aim for the stars!
  18. When it comes to your abilities, you:
    • A) Doubt them most of the time.
    • B) Are realistic about what you can and can’t do.
    • C) Are confident and believe you can do almost anything.
  19. Someone asks for your opinion. You:
    • A) Worry about offending them.
    • B) Try to give a balanced response.
    • C) Speak your mind openly.
  20. You get stuck in traffic and will be late. You:
    • A) Assume this will ruin your entire day.
    • B) Feel frustrated but try to stay calm.
    • C) Think of it as extra time to listen to music or podcasts.
  21. When you meet someone who disagrees with you, you:
    • A) Think less of them.
    • B) Consider their points but keep your own view.
    • C) See it as a chance for a stimulating conversation.
  22. You're going on vacation. Your thoughts are:
    • A) What if something goes wrong?
    • B) I hope it’s as fun as I imagine.
    • C) This is going to be the best trip ever!
  23. When someone is talking about a complex issue, you:
    • A) Tune out, thinking you won’t understand anyway.
    • B) Listen and try to understand, even if you don’t agree.
    • C) Are eager to dive in and share your views.
  24. When faced with a problem, your first thought is:
    • A) Why does this always happen to me?
    • B) I need to find out more before I decide.
    • C) I can solve this.
  25. You're given a difficult task with a tight deadline. You:
    • A) Panic and think about giving up.
    • B) Weigh your options and resources.
    • C) Get energized by the challenge.
  26. You hear about a new technological advancement. You:
    • A) Worry about the negative implications.
    • B) Consider both the good and bad aspects.
    • C) Get excited about the future.
  27. You're asked to lead a project or team. Your reaction is:
    • A) I can’t handle this.
    • B) I’ll give it my best but make no promises.
    • C) This is my chance to shine!
  28. You're offered constructive criticism. You:
    • A) Feel defeated and criticized.
    • B) Take it into account but don't dwell on it.
    • C) Appreciate the feedback as a way to improve.
  29. You have a free day with no obligations. You:
    • A) Worry you’ll waste it doing nothing.
    • B) Make no specific plans but see how you feel.
    • C) Get excited about all the things you can do.
  30. When you think about the future, you generally:
    • A) Feel anxious or pessimistic.
    • B) Have mixed feelings of both hope and worry.
    • C) Feel optimistic and excited.

Scoring Guide

30-50 Points: Pessimistic/Negative Tendency: You often see the glass as half-empty and tend to focus on the downsides. But remember, attitudes can change! You might benefit from focusing on the positive aspects of situations and consider therapies or techniques to shift your mindset.

51-70 Points: Mixed/Ambivalent: You have a balanced view of situations but may sometimes feel stuck in the middle. You weigh the pros and cons, which is a good thing! Still, being too indecisive can be limiting, so you might work on that.

71-90 Points: Optimistic/Positive Tendency: You have a generally optimistic outlook and see challenges as opportunities. This is a strong point but remember, too much optimism can sometimes be risky. A little caution can go a long way!


Wow, what a journey we've been on! We've explored what attitudes are, learned how they're like invisible backpacks that we carry around, and even discovered the types of attitudes that can make our lives more colorful or, well, a bit dull.

If you took the quiz, you've got some insights into your own dominant attitude. Remember, it's not a life sentence; it's more like a snapshot of how you tend to think, feel, and act right now. And the cool part? You've got the power to change it!

Whether you want to dial up the optimism, bring a little more balance, or even just understand why you see the world the way you do, you've got tools and tips right from the experts.

So what's next? Maybe you'll try keeping a journal or practicing gratitude. Maybe you'll talk to a friend or seek out a psychologist for deeper insights. No matter what you choose, just know that your attitude is your window to the world.

You can't always control what happens to you, but you can control how you perceive it. And that, friends, is a superpower all its own.

Reference this article:

Practical Psychology. (2023, September). 12+ Types of Attitudes (Examples + Quiz). Retrieved from https://practicalpie.com/types-of-attitudes/.

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